Every parent wants to have children in normal condition. But, what if your children are special by being autistics? One thing if you find this thing is to control yourself and try to accept the fact wisely. Do not ever think that this is a bad luck for you and husband. You must think that this is a gift instead. This is because becoming parents whose children are autistics is a big challenge. You can test yourself whether you are well-prepared parents or not.
Support is the next thing that is needed by parents. Although they have send positive suggestions to their mind, there will come a time when they fell down and over think about the condition of their children. Other family members have to understand the psychological condition of these parents. Give support endlessly. This is a blessing if you have many people that care for you. You can search external group of parents who feel the same. You can also attend seminars on nurturing children with autism.
Once you know that your children are autistics, you have to immediately consult with the doctor about the ways to nurture. They are special thus they need special treatments and techniques. Autism makes the children have their own world. You need to read a lot of sources about the treatments and also about parents who feel the same. The aim is to make you learn from them what kind of successful learning process or treatments that are right for them.
Again and again, you need supports. Besides you get the support itself from the family members, you need external parties. You can find the groups in the internet about parents feeling the same thing. We understand that this is very hard for you to do in the beginning. But as the time goes by, you will slowly accept this and do the real action to treat the autistics children properly. Go have a discussion with them and plan meetings that can ask your children to go along with you.
Since your children in early age, you need to bring them to the therapist’s special for autistics children. They are the ones who really understand the development of children with autism. They will bring the children to the environment that is good and right for them. Besides, sending them to special education teachers is needed because they use some tricks for autistics and can be applied at home. You can build good communication with the teachers to ask things.